Both when deciding to have sex right now this instant, and during the course of having sex this way, there is a feeling of enhanced spontaneity which can be thrilling to each of you.
The standing body is simply more flexible. If you’re both standing up and you may well be if you’re fking in a sauna, sex club, dance. Enjoy exploring these new ways to move.Įach of you should find you’re more able to kiss and look at each other than you are while lying down with one facing downwards. In some gay sex positions the top leads the action, and in some the bottom takes the lead. You might find you can move your pelvis a lot more fluently than you can while lying or kneeling because the whole of the leg is engaged in the action. To really hit that prostate my favorite position is standing doggy style, both men standing upright, in fact the bottom should keep his back arched backward. Rubbing your hands across his chest will feel incredibly sexy. Avoid pushing him forward – let him do that when he wants to – but do take the time to slow down and hold him close against your chest and stomach. If you’re the top, you’re both guiding your partner and following his lead. Hold his hands and move them around on your skin.
Reach behind with your hands to caress him – and caress yourself. Flex and stretch your legs and buttocks, sometimes tightening your hold on him, or teasing him, tensing your buttocks to push him a little away from your anus, sometimes bending forward and enjoying the depth of penetration he will then be able to achieve. Gay sex positions – standing – from behind Each can move at once, or one may remain still a moment while the other establishes and varies the rhythm. Each partner can feel he is more actively pleasuring the other.
It’s a remarkably versatile position, or range of positions, allowing both top and bottom a degree of manoeuvre which is hard to achieve if one is literally the top and the other the bottom. If the bedroom isn’t currently an option – because it’s too far away from the kitchen, where the sight of him washing up naked or reaching down into the salad drawer simply demands that you put your arms around him and have sex now, or if you’re shopping or out at a party and having sex is suddenly imperative – now is your chance to take a break from the more-or-less horizontal positions and make love more-or-less standing up.